In November 2017 I became a left below-the-knee amputee after contracting MRSA (multi-resistant staph infection). After ten months of numerous surgeries, I decided to have an elective amputation. I was surrounded by a great team of doctors and nurses whom I trusted to guide me with this life-changing decision. At the time I was 47 years old, a wife, a mother of two and working as a part-time dental assistant.
The APC limb clinic is where I felt supported and built relationships with the prosthetic team, physiotherapists, and most importantly other amputees. It’s Where I was able to talk about my concerns and listen to stories from other amputees. The team at APC Prosthetics are always willing to listen and offer advice. I told my Prosthetist that I missed being able to slip on thongs, and when it was time to get a new foot, I received one with a split toe for both my everyday leg and water leg. This means I can now wear thongs to the beach and dip my toes in the water, something I missed very much. The team at APC also provided me with a foot that adjusts to my heel height for various types of shoes and it’s the best thing ever!
I often compared myself to these amazing amputees on the Paralympics team. I was never sporty before my amputation, so I am not going to suddenly become this amazing athlete now. People would often suggest that as an amputee, I am now a suitable candidate for the Paralympics, however, there were times when getting into the shower was a big enough achievement for me. I am a proud amputee and whilst I am not on a Paralympic team, I am getting up every day and giving life my best shot. I will keep doing the things I love including working, going to the beach, playing with my dogs, renovating, gardening, socialising, and travelling.
My message to other amputees is, it may not be the life you imagined; however, it can still be just as wonderful. Grieve the loss of your limb, be kind to yourself, allow yourself the time to adapt to new ways of doing things, and be patient in finding your new norm as it takes time and effort. You are more resilient than you think. Be prepared for some relationships to change, you may lose some long-time friendships, and gain others. Surround yourself with positivity and great people who want to encourage you to be the best version of yourself and wear your prosthetic with confidence.
One day, I hope to have an amputee support group for our local area. This will allow us to unite, share stories, support one another, and create beautiful friendships.
